Here I am again with stories on how being Psychic can have some great benefits, although this particular one sometimes makes my partner scratch his head or want to tear his hairs out!
Decisions: Normal Style
Well, most people make choices based on their ideas about situations, information they gather and sometimes things they talk over with their friends. So, if you are for example planning on buying a car, you will probably check online for cars, test drive a few and then decide which one you like best.
Decisions: Psychic Style
For important decisions I usually take the time to reflect and listen. Often I get told what is going to happen and what I need to do. Sometimes I get less guidance then I would like and then choose to check in during the process.
The hardest decisions are those that seem to have no basis in the material world yet. One of my famous decisions was to bank on the fact that there would be a space for me in the current building that I work. It stayed unclear for many months, as we went from 6 floors to 3 and some people chose not to wait for confirmation, but to find other spaces. I was urged to find a place for myself by many people as that was the smart thing to do. It was difficult for me to keep standing by what I felt was right, but it worked out perfectly.
Solve your difficult Decision Psychic Style
So what happens if you solve your difficult decision Psychic Style? Some Psychics will tell you what will happen, so you can change your decision accordingly. Many people would have wished to know the future when they bought a house (too small for a family and meeting a spouse a year later), a car (broken down with problems) or started a relationship (turned abusive). So it pays off to know the future!
Most of the time I will look at both sides of a decision for a client. I will tell you what both will bring you and you are free to do what you want. Sometimes neither path is good for you and I will tell you what will happen. Usually this is met with complete disbelief, because people can't see it happen in the real world. No signs pointing towards what I am saying. Notable examples include:
1) Neither car was the car to buy. I predicted that the website of the brand would show a car within budget, with the extra's needed (cruise control + parking sensors) that weekend. Was met with disbelief. Car showed up on Sunday afternoon and was bought.
2) Job prospects. I predicted the client would start working with teenagers/children and that she could finish her degree in something else, but it wouldn't bring her what she needed. Met with disbelief, client didn't have any papers/certifications. Hardly a year later client told me that she is indeed working with teenagers/children.
3) Marriage. Client was in the middle of divorce proceedings, with the spouse already out of the house. Predicted that they would get back together. Met with disbelief as client was told repeatedly that the marriage wouldn't work anymore by the spouse. Within 3 months they were rebuilding their marriage and they have been happily married ever since.
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Spring is in the air here and I'm anxious about new prospects blooming suddenly and surprisingly. At the moment however, it's a bit cold again, so now it's a good time to do a Reading with a cup of tea. I did ask for help for all my sessions in the last few weeks, following my February Reading. I haven't had the time yet to create some Wish Mandala's but I'm sure to be able to do it soon.
For this Reading, I decided to use "The Wisdom Well" by Ivarna Kalinkova
Group work: What strengths do I bring as a Teacher: 27 The Lace Maker
Certainly an interesting card to have as a Teacher for strength qualities. The card features a spider. In many cultures Spider is a wonderful teacher, but also a trickster. Their stories will allow the audience to learn and examine their own beliefs. I do know I am quite a story teller, which means often my workshops run late!
Group work: What do I need to develop as a Teacher: 14 The Mirror Woman
The mirror woman looks like a siren, sitting on the waters with a huge sea shell in her hands. I do know that I need to captivate my audience (promotion wise). Once people are there, all is well, but before that I often have difficulty finding the words.
Mirror Woman lets me know to not only look at myself but also to look at my prospective audience. What do they need, what would they be interested in, what key words will make them curious!
Group work: What advice do I need to hear 6: Father Earth?
It was always strange to me that in this Deck, Earth is considered male. I have to admit that I often work with Mother Earth energies, but not often with Father energies. It's interesting how when I saw the image I immediately thought: Father Time!
I think the advice is to take my time and to build influence as a Teacher.
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I think everybody on a healing journey has encountered this, one time or another, sometimes it's a heavy shroud sometimes it's a smarting little pang. As much as I would like, there is no instant healing to be done when Bitterness rears it's ugly head. However, I do outline a few exercises you can try to stop Bitterness in it's track.
Why Bitterness hits everybody
There you are on your healing journey, trying your best, staying positive, investing energy, money and time... but you are not seeing the results you want or need. For some of us it can take years before we start feeling bitter that the issues we are working on are not shifting, for others it happens within the first few months.
Everybody wants to be healed quickly and effortlessly. Everybody wants to shed their issues, be they physical, mental or emotional. However, sometimes it seems like it's impossible to make any headway while you are feeling you are doing all the right things. This can be incredible discouraging and painful.
My own personal Bitterness-experiences
When I did the radioactive iodine treatment I was convinced I would be one of the few who would come out intact. I really poured in large amounts of positive energy, even though I was only at the beginning of my healing path. At first, it seemed that this would be where I would end up, but 4 months later the message was clear: my thyroid wasn't coping. I was very bitter about it and it took me a long time to see that it happened for a reason. If I had gone ahead and healed completely I would never have started my company or done the personal healing that was needed.
During my Healing Path I had quite a bit of bitterness pangs now and again. My blood values wouldn't stabilize or improve no matter how hard I tried. I've seen doctors in 3 different hospitals trying to make it work. I saw alternative healers as well, but nobody could seem to stabilize them.
I would refocus on things that were shifting, as I would notice I had more energy, started feeling better about myself etc. etc.
My last bitterness pang was a week or so ago. I've been on quite a good path lately, with values increasingly improving and stabilizing, however, recently I had a setback. Not so strange, because my thyroid is still a bit damaged so can't give out enough hormones as were needed in the high stress environment of the past couple of months (4 deaths, hospital visits, ICU etc.). I burned through all my reserves and ended up hypo. With all the complaints that come with it. Quite annoying and I had to step back and rest up. However, this time has been valuable to see as well, concerning what is needed in my life. Luckily for me, issues are shifting again, because I didn't stay stuck in Bitterness.
Why Bitterness harms so much
Bitterness usually overshadows everything. We don't see the progress we have made, we see only what we do not yet have. We are focused on the problem, not on the solution. Bitterness can overwhelm our willingness to try to heal, our willingness to work at it and can put us at a standstill.
What can you do when you feel Bitterness threatening?
Like I said there isn't an instant solution to Bitterness, but here are some approaches you can try:
- Throw a Pity Party. Acknowledge that it's sad, upset, hurting and a bit bitter. Pamper yourself and give yourself a full day to feel the feelings and process them. Next day, pick yourself up, dust yourself off and see what you can do to heal.
- Do a Gratitude Exercise. Look at what your healing has accomplished. It might not have solved the issues you wanted yet, but surely, there must have been some gain? If there isn't, you need to refocus because you are doing the wrong things!
- Compare yourself to others. Usually Bitterness is accompanied by feelings of jealousy. You think others are healing and doing better then you. Compare yourself to people who are worse of to get that gratitude going and understand that we all have our own path.
- Watch some feel good movies, reminds yourself of your inner strength and fortitude. They also usually show you the dark before the morning as well, making your realize that dark times are important too.
- Give yourself time.